If you see and admire positive traits in others, tell them so. If you feel impressed by their strength and courage in facing a challenge, let them know.
Acknowledgment of the good qualities within others offers them reassurance and helps build their self-esteem. Expressing confidence in a person’s ability to accomplish something actually strengthens that ability.
In our society many care more about getting their own way than about the well being of others. Self-centered attitudes cause people to complain, criticize, and condemn. Love involves caring enough to keep your thoughts and words positive. Be warm and caring. Give affection and encouragement to others and you will get them back.